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Wednesday, March 2, 2022

CAN A WOMAN LEAD IN THE CHURCH?

 

[position paper in Reformed Theology, ThM, WTCS-Cambodia]

Introduction

The issue of having women in the ministry has always been a primary concern in many churches today. There are many evangelical churches that allow having Lady Pastors, Elders, or Deacons while others strictly do not ordain any woman leader at all. Among the strongest Biblical sources being held on to regarding this ecclesiastical doctrine are the accounts of the Apostle Paul when he wrote his epistles to the churches of Corinth and Ephesus. Apparently, Pauline theology has always been part of the discussions with regards to deciding if women will be allowed to lead in the Church.

 

Paul About Women In the Ministry

"As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says." 1 Corinthians 14:34-35

Pauline theology has been controversial when it comes to treating women who are in the ministry. One of the phrases in Pauline epistles that is often confused about is in 1 Corinthians 14, where he said that "women should keep quiet". If thoroughly exegeted, one will realize that Paul was just addressing an issue within the Corinth church that time and he was not making a universal rule for the Church. This chapter, particularly verses 34 and 35 are usually interpreted out of context by some churches. [1]

Remember that the phrase "no longer male and female" that he said Galatians 3:28 will show Paul's view of equality between men and women, though he was about having each, man and woman, different and special ministries, as what he talked about godly characteristics of a church leader who is a husband of one wife and so forth), and then husband should be the head of the family and the wife should submit to him. This is not about superiority and inferiority. These are equal ministries- husband as head and wife in full submission and children under them. Hence, Paul was not against having women leading in the ministry.

To understand better if Paul was in favor or against having women in the ministry are these women whom he himself has discipled to lead in churches that he planted over the years of ministry in Europe.

“I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a deacon of the church in Cenchreae. I ask you to receive her in the Lord in a way worthy of his people and to give her any help she may need from you, for she has been the benefactor of many people, including me…Greet Priscilla[2] and Aquila, my co-workers in Christ Jesus. They risked their lives for me. Not only I but all the churches of the Gentiles are grateful to them . . . Greet Andronicus and Junia, my fellow Jews who have been in prison with me. They are outstanding among the apostles, and they were in Christ before I was . . . Greet Tryphena and Tryphosa, those women who work hard in the Lord. Greet my dear friend Persis, another woman who has worked very hard in the Lord. [3]  Rom. 16:1-12

We cannot give an accurate number of women in the ministry from Paul's planted Churches but aside from those mentioned above, there are also Prisca, Nympha, Mary, Lydia who were heads of house churches. If Paul has charged these women in the name of Jesus to be leading in the ministry, then we can say that there is no problem having women as a pastor, deacon, or an elder in the church then and now. It has always something to do about the needs of the church and of course, the leading of the Holy Spirit in the congregation.

 

Problem in the Ephesus

1 Timothy 2:11-12 was intended to instruct the church in Ephesus regarding how women (and even men) should behave in the church, based on the bigger scope- whole chapter 2- being the "Instructions on Worship". [4]

The first pastoral letter to Timothy by Paul was written around AD 65, after Paul's 1st imprisonment. During those days, one of the problems in the church was the different (or perhaps disrespectful) behavior of women in the church. It was supposedly because of the rising ego of women caused by the prevalent idolatry towards a Goddess named Artemis (Diana-Roman equivalent) as mentioned in Acts 19. Hence, the strong personalities of some women then have been making trouble in the church, making worship services unpeaceful and disappointing to others. Some women talk to their husbands during worship like asking things, interrupting them in every way and whenever they feel like doing it. They seem to, in some point, dominate their husbands.

This problem, as Paul viewed it, had to be solved by instructing women to keep silent or learn in silence, and submit to their husbands. Paul said he does not permit the woman to talk in the church but this does not mean that women are not permitted to preach nor lead in the church. He was addressing an issue about a particular woman in the church who has been a problem to the congregation but he did not name her in the letter.[5] This is not the first time that Paul did it as he also wrote epistles to other churches addressing issues with individuals without mentioning their names.[6]

As per Paul, there is always the right time to talk. Hence, women should stop talking during worship, as their voices cause disturbance in the church. It has been said that in the early churches, women and men usually have separate designated places to sit on. Therefore, when a woman wants to ask something to his husband, she tends to shout towards her husband the question, which awkwardly puts up an annoying scenario inside the church during worship.

Obviously, the plight was over then, hence the solution given by Paul was for that time as well, and not for us today. Again, it is a matter of context.

 

Jesus' View According to the Scriptures

Jesus himself was not against women being leaders in the Church. Remember there were five people under His feet when He was on the cross, and four out of those five were women. The first disciples whom Jesus appeared to when He resurrected were also women (Magdalene and Mary). And the first evangelist that He had was the Samaritan woman by the well. And this may sound out of context but the only 'DNA' Jesus had was of a woman, which was of Mary’s.

Jesus surely does not want women today to be in silence or remain to be mere attendees and constant listeners. As He wants the church to be organic, women in the ministry are also expected to grow and become instruments for the advancement of the Kingdom.  Jesus has given the commission to everyone not just to men.

The Lord acknowledged women in the ministry many times as we look at the accounts in the New Testament or even in the Old Testament like Deborah, the only woman judge then, and Esther, the queen who represented the Jewish people during the Assyrian rule.

 

God did not say "I will use men only in my kingdom", but clearly, He wants everyone, men and women, to work with Him as He does His will on earth. 1 Peter 4:10 says that "Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms.".. and all, men and women, are parts of the body of Christ, as said in 1 Corinthians 12. Either men or women, can speak and teach in the church, as long as it's according to God's call and purpose.

 

Conclusion

            Realizing from this position paper, I am looking closely to my own church as well. Being an independent church, we are still small in number and there are not a lot of men in the church. In our context, women usually lead Bible studies and outreaches. Even the educators are mostly women not to mention majority of the elders/council are women as well. If we will wait for men to come to church and become leaders, it will take months or years for them to commit. But the needs are so great so churches like us do not have a choice but to tap the only resources that we have, and these are the women who have been discipled and are committed to serve the church and the Lord.

            Personally, I do not see any problem having women leading in the church but I respect ministers and churches who strictly have men alone lead the church. For as long as we all serve the Lord with all our heart, mind, body and soul, and we commit our whole selves to the great commission to reach our Jerusalem, Judah, Samaria, and the ends of the earth, then I believe the Lord recognizes that in spite of the flaws that we have in the organic church, that is still in the process of perfection.

 

Other online sources read for this position paper:

https://www.americamagazine.org/issue/675/article/women-and-paul

https://www.bible-bridge.com/pauls-view-of-women/

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-29513427

https://directionjournal.org/9/1/role-of-women-in-church-pauline.html

 



[1] Loren Cunningham, et.al., Why Not Women? Seattle, WA, 2000. P185-185. “Keep in mind that this verse is part of a passage that concludes a seven-part series on ministry in the church, as outlined at the beginning of chapter 12. Paul didn’t toss out haphazard ideas. He was a controlled, disciplined writer and nowhere more so than in this intricate passage. Any understanding of this verse regarding women keeping silent has to be viewed in the context of what has gone before. This includes 1 Corinthians 11:2-16, which as we’ve seen before strongly affirms men and women praying and prophesying in public gatherings of the church.”

[2] Ibid. Paul was preaching about silencing women in the church, where Priscila was a founding leader, where she spent years of leading along with her husband Aquila. The same church where Apollos was corrected for his errors in leadership. “Was Paul, who had asked the church in Rome to receive the woman minister Phoebe with all due honor, now contradicting himself telling Timothy never to allow women to be leaders in the church? P.207

 

[4] Ibid. “…Paul used a mini-chiasm (in this passage in 1 Timothy).. He began talking about women in general, then switched to a particular woman, then switched back to women in general,” p.207

[5] Ibid. p.213. “A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man;she must be silent..”

[6] (1) A man in Corinth committing incest. 1 Cor.5:1 (2) Titus being instructed by Paul to warn a divisive person once, and then for the second warning without positive response, he should let the person be as he has nothing to do with him anymore. Titus 3:10-11.

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