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When you are single in your
30’s or 40’s or even late 20’s, people will pity you or make fun of you. Either
way, it hurts. But you need to go on with your head up high. If they do not
understand that marriage is not the ultimate source of someone’s happiness, at
least you do understand it yourself.
Yes I said it. Being married
is not the ultimate goal in life. But of course it makes some people happier.
In some cases, being single for a lifetime even paints a happier picture. There
are studies[1]
that presented a survey result that the two happiest people groups on earth
are: “married men” and “single women”. But it really depends on people not on
surveys.
The decision to get married
really depends on you. You see, it is not fate, it is a choice. And you are the
one to decide which will make you ‘happy’: to be single or to get married. It
is included in God’s gift package called “freewill”.
Greg Morse said in his desiringGod.org
article[2]
that "To live is not to marry. To live is not to raise children. To live
is not to find “the one.” To live is Jesus Christ." I would like to agree
with him on this.......
[exerpts from SYBABS@30 pp16-17. Read further by grabbing a copy of SYBABS@30 from amazon or directly from Menschville, contact us today!]
[1] https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/201701/is-it-true-single-women-and-married-men-do-best, Is
It True That Single Women and Married Men Do Best?
[2]
http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/marriage-is-not-the-mission
