STEP 1
ANALYZE yourself and the problems in and out. Leave the Past Behind you. Forgive.
What does being single have to do with your life now?
What does it have to do with other’s lives as well?
Does it really matter if you are alone now?
Is there something in the past that makes your life a mess today?
Have you forgiven everyone who has hurt you in the past?
Forgiving is the beginning of healing. Well if something is still giving you that pain, get yourself back on track and deal with the pain. It has to pass otherwise, you will be in trouble until you are 60 or beyond. If you will not move on now, then when?
STEP 2
Be WISE on your perspective about Marriage. Understand what it is and its true value in one's life.
Will I ever get married?
Is marriage designed for me too?
Whom should it be?
Marriage is one of the most common yet confused commitments in the world. It has to be treated beautifully and considered holy. How do you view marriage today? How much value do you see in it?
STEP 3
EMPHASIZE the beauty behind being single. Focus on the positives but reckon with the negatives to push you to the top.
I don’t feel normal, how can I say
that being single is beautiful?
I feel enfeebled by the idea that
I am alone while seeing that I am
Surrounded by people who are
In love..
There is much to appreciate in being single- when you are living alone, without someone, for now. God has a reason why he has put you in such situation and for sure, the loneliness is just temporary. Perhaps you still don’t see the beauty in it. Look deeper and see the gift in it.
STEP 4
SERVE and don't be served. Life is not about you. You have a mission to accomplish.
What is the purpose of my being single for now?
What can I contribute to the ‘outside world’?
Do not get stuck with your own world. You have a real world to connect with. Life is not just a quick dash of being born, learning to walk, going and finishing school, getting married, and die. You have a purpose to fulfill.
Step 5
OPTIMIZE life to serve God and others better. Keep yourself healthy- physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
How do I pamper myself so as to present a new “me” in the world?
How do I function as a single person in a world that gives outrageous value on being in a relationship?
Science says that you behave according to your blood type and it also says that your depression depends on the level of your cortisol. Your thyroid has something to do with your brain function as well, according to studies. You may be ‘clinically unwell’ but many Bible characters also have blood, cortisol, thyroid, and so forth. And Jesus also had these when he walked on earth. They all made a difference tho, no matter the scientific circumstance were. Learn from them and don’t take science as an alibi.
STEP 6
MEDITATE on God's word and keep praying while waiting. Your forever is coming!
I don’t have patience in waiting,
But I don’t have a choice…
Who finds joy and gladness in waiting? Maybe you don’t, nobody seems to. But our almighty God has been patiently waiting for us to learn things. We frustrate Him but He gives grace. We sin against Him but He forgives. How can He be so patient with idiotic dusts like us in a microscopic planet earth? Well, He is our dad and we came from Him, He surely has ways for us to learn from His values too.
LAST STEP
ENGAGE yourself to the will of God and He will give you the desires of your heart according to His will and time.continue reading the whole book by downloading the PDF file of SYBABS.
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